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neciaism — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 15:29:20 +0000

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Created from a rib, We were intended to be Help-Mates; Ignorance has since made that term a “badge of shame”, a sign of Weakness & Stupidity. It takes Courage to play Your position & Intelligence to know what Your position is. Respect the honor of Him being the Man. Appreciate the prestige of being the Woman & Embrace them both as We all have Our designated roles; that’s not sexist opinion, it’s a TRUE Statement. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright Â© 2012

neciaism — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 14:23:24 +0000

Loving someone one & being in Love with someone are two different entities. Love is like a Good Man & an Orgasm, You donâ€™t know what Youâ€™ve been missing until You have one; once You have one thereâ€™s no question in Your mind. No matter how articulate You are, words canâ€™t express the feeling; You have to experience it inorder to relate to it. God is truly the Grand Architect; designing Man & Woman like puzzle pieces to perfectly fit together forming a Phenomenal picture. Appreciative & Speechless for Good Reason… ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright Â© 2012

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neciaism — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 14:15:39 +0000

neciaism — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 13:12:28 +0000

I saw a thought provoking sign online, it read: “I asked God to protect Me from All of My enemies & then I started Losing Friends”… Deep right? It occurred to Me that people are like Gravity, if They aren’t lifting You up They’re dragging You down. Life lessons; We can’t expect to fly with dead weight on Our wings. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright Â© 2012

neciaism — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 13:00:18 +0000

Identify Your Need, Understand Your Obstacle, Recognize Your Responsibility, and Become Your Answer. Life may not be going the way You intended, but it is going EXACTLY the way God planned it; Things happen by Appointment Not Accident. I’m Not where I want to be but I’m miles from where I’ve been & not too far from where Im headed. Stay Prayerful, Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright Â© 2012

neciaism — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 12:58:42 +0000

Recognize the Blessing in any “Bad relationship” for without Knowing Bad We wouldn’t Identify & Appreciate Good. We’re in each others lives for Reasons, Seasons or Lifetimes & it doesn’t have to be a Lifetime inorder to make a difference. People who serve their purpose & then moving on, isn’t Bad or Good; It’s Life. Some people You have to Love from a distance so that You can properly Love Yourself. Anyone can get a Friend but You have to be one inorder to keep one. Stay Prayerful. Focused & Encouraged ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright Â© 2012

neciaism — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 01:17:29 +0000

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Â Â Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Treat that Man like Who He Can & Will be. Not like Who he is or Was. Who wants to be reminded of their flaws? When we treat Our Men like royalty the pressure is on to Maintain Our Praise or Rise to the Occasion & Earn it. Â Don’t take for granted because men are physically the stronger sex that they are also emotionally superior. Sometimes all He needs is that boost of confidence from His better half to reach His full potential or even become aware of how much He’s capable of. These Men don’t Love Us as much as they Love the way We make them feel Sisters. Â ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright Â© 2012

neciaism — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 01:03:33 +0000

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: When He says ” I Do” We can’t take that as the Green Light for Us to always say “I Don’t”. Â Not insinuating it’s okay to venture outside of Your relationship for feeling neglected however being completely honest all things have Cause & Effect. In most cases when all that We want is at a particular store We’re less likely to shop anywhere else. Making a Man feel Unwanted or Uncomfortable can only cause problems. Keeping Him happy is a form of Preventative Medicine a mere form of protection against the “Miserable-ous Divorce-ous” virus that’s running rapid amongst Us. Â ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright Â© 2012

neciaism — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 00:39:23 +0000

Woman2Woman Relationship Rules: Â Â Excluding infidelity We need not know Everything. Being too intrusive can make a Man feel pressured, claustrophobic & disrespected. I’ve found that with Men its not so much as what they’re hiding being the issue it’s more the invasion of their privacy & personal space. As a Grown Woman in a relationship We owe it to Our unions to Trust Him until He gives Us reason not to. Â Realize being in a Loving committed relationship & still being individuals with Our own Lives is actually more sane than it is strange; which is why it’s sad that it’s so rare. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism CopyrightÂ©2012

neciaism — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 00:17:13 +0000

Anger is the Secondary Emotion; the mask that Hurt the Primary Emotion wears when its ashamed to show it’s face. An Angered Spirit is a Tortured Spirit. Whatâ€™s heard is “I’m Mad at You” when whatâ€™s said is “I’m in Pain”. The Best people can make the Worst mistakes & the Worst Results can stem from the Best Intentions; without the ability to Forgive, We limit Our ability to Love. If You Love Someone, “Let them Know”; if You can’t stand them “Let it Go”. It takes much more energy to hold grudges then to just live Free without the weight of a Burden. Harboring resentment gives the same entity that caused You grief, Power over Your Mind, Body, Soul & Spirit; God is the Only One worthy of that privilege. Why waste energy upsetting someone You don’t even like? It’s more sensible to dismiss them along with any & all I’ll feelings. ~LuvUMuch Neciaism Copyright Â© 2012